Tuesday, October 22, 2013

School bullies and my precious girl.

Lailah's been telling me that she's been getting bullied at school by a little girl named Emily. Apparently Emily tells all the other little girls that they can't be friends with Lailah if they want to be friends with her. Lailah told me that at the end of last week Emily pushed her and she fell and hit her head on the desk - giving her a bruise. She said that at gym Emily will step on her fingers on purpose. I just really don't like what I hear about Emily.
I understand Lailah can be difficult and snobby or whatever - but then her teacher should be informing me so that I can handle it at home before other children get physical with her. You know?
Also another child - a little boy named Marshall is apparently aggressive with her. But from what I understand - only if Lailah triggers him. Whereas Emily just doesn't seem to like Lailah for whatever reason. She told me Marshall bent her fingers back a couple weeks ago. But from what I gather Lailah was putting her feet into the boys line to save a spot for another little boy she liked better than Marshall and Marshall wanted to stand there. He told Lailah to move, she had an attitude, he tried to push her but it didn't work, so he grabbed her hand and pushed her fingers back. Kids will be kids.
But I do have a problem with Emily. Lailah has had an issue with this ONE little girl since the beginning of school for who knows what reason.

On another note: Random convos with Lai or things she's said recently:

Lai: can we go get Alex now?
Me: no, Alex doesn't get out for another 20 mins. I'm not gonna go stand out there when I can sit in the car. Mommy needs to be careful for the baby.
Lai: I would like to go out though and play hopscotch or something. Of course you're not bored though because you're sitting in here playing on your phone.
*She has a point.

Lai: How many stickers did I earn for today?
Me: One for being good at school.
Lailah: Okay, what else?
Me: One for being good after school.
Lai: Okay, what else?
Me: One sticker for doing your homework.
Lai: That's it !?!?!
Me: Yes, because you didn't listen to me while doing your homework so you only earned one sticker and not two.
Lai: So I only get ONE sticker?!
Me: Well no, you get One for being good at school, one for being good after school, one for doing your homework. That's three stickers.
Lai: *sighs* okay.... whatever you say MOTHER.
-.- LOL

Me: *sneezes and pees then rushes to bathroom*
Lai: Mom, why are you changing your underwear?
Me: Cuz I just peed when I sneezed. The baby is right on my bladder.
Lai: EW !! Grossss !! Good thing I can't have a baby yet !!

Last night my little Lai crawled into bed with me, snuggled her head into my shoulder, and held my hand. I told her, "you know I'll always love you, right?" She nodded her head, whispered 'I love you too', and then fell right back to sleep. Soon the baby will be here and I can't imagine her not being my little baby anymore. What am I going to do with two?

We went to walmart yesterday to get a bday present for Lai's friend and as we left I was standing in the parking lot and was like,
"Wheres my car?" "Where did I park again?"
*looking around*
and Lailah says, "Mom ! You parked over there !"
*points*
and I was like... "Yeah.. somewhere over here"...
*walks in that direction*
then she goes, "Oh mom ! See I told you !! I can see your car!! It's right there! BABY BRAIN !"
LOL (32 weeks pregnant)

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